Let’s just start by clearing the air. There is no such thing as a “normal” sex drive. Whether or not your libido is “normal” or “healthy”, is dependent on what feels right to you. So, don’t compare yourself to others or feel pressured to have the same drive that you think others have.

That being said, extremely low or very high libidos can sometimes indicate health problems.

Shortly after having a baby, your mojo could be anywhere on the spectrum from raging to non-existent. For most new parents, lack of sleep, less social life, and less time for intimacy with each other can certainly have an impact.

But for a lot of mums, the changes to your body, chronic pain, and your mental state can have huge influences on your desire to get it on… and it could take some time to get it back, but there are ways to speed things up!